How To Succeed with the Ladies and Leave a Lasting Impact

    NORFOLK, ENGLAND, September 14, 2011 /24-7PressRelease/ -- Here are some really great tips and pointers on how to attract members of the opposite sex with subtlety and honesty without the need for crude jokes, bad chat up lines or bragging.

It can be a minefield out there when it comes to dating and first impressions really do count. If you go about it in a brash and chauvinistic manor you are more likely to put off every female within a 10 mile radius, but if you dig a little deeper and show a little of your true self you will find that you receive much more welcome attention.

It's not easy bearing your inner self, that's usually the part that we all like to keep a little bit under wraps but if a girl can see that you are not trying to be something you're not, even if you stutter, stammer, get tongue tied, it will make a difference and she will appreciate that far more than a souped up version of you.

You may well have heard some or perhaps all of these tips before and may possibly think it's old news but stop and think, even though you've heard them have you ever actually put them into practice? After all, you can't knock something until you've tried it and, if your dating life is non existent, what have you got to lose?.

Eye Contact: Keep it low key at first, if you see someone you would like to be dating just glance and then look away, if she looks back hold the eye contact for a little longer but don't overdo it, let her do some work too. If she keeps looking back then you can throw in a smile, nothing lecherous or over the top, just a brief, pleasant smile that lets her know you are approachable. Keep glancing over every so often but don't stare, you don't want her to think you are the stalker type. Just play it cool and see what happens.

Stay Relaxed: If she does come over or if you happen to bump into her on your way to the bar stay calm and relaxed, don't appear completely nonchalant, you don't want to put her off dating you straight away, but don't go completely over the top either. Give her another smile to let her know you are glad you bumped into her and perhaps just add a 'Hi' or 'Hello'. Don't start rolling off the cheesy chat up lines 'Do you come here often', just play it cool.

If she sticks around longer than just to buy the drinks then that's a good sign and, if she hasn't done so already you could always offer to buy her drink for her. If she declines then just smile and say 'okay, maybe next time then?' but pose it as a question and see what response you receive.

No one said that the dating process was a quick one but, if you play your cards right, it can work in your favour within the evening. If she responded to your question with a 'yes' 'sure' or 'okay' then the chances are you haven't seen the last of her for the night and you could be dating her by the end of the night.

Honesty: When it comes to crunch time and you finally sit down face to face don't, on any account, attempt to big yourself up, tell little white lies or brag. Girls not only have a radar for BS but also put the feelers out and do their homework when it comes to a guy they may possibly be dating in the future. If you tell them something that's not true they may be impressed at the time but it's guaranteed that by the following day they will have found out the truth and will steer well clear of you from then on, maybe even turning you into a laughing stock amongst their mates.

Sensitivity: We are not talking gushy or breaking down and crying in front of her, just showing that you are capable of being understanding and caring. Let her know that you do have a sensitive side even if it's not always obvious. Showing you care doesn't mean you are wimpy or weedy it just means you're human and girl's like to see that side of a guy every so often when they are dating them.

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Just relax, be yourself and you will have those gorgeous girls queuing to meet you in no time.

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