How Does Managing Pure Love Sound? Well; Managing One's Life is Exactly the Same! Managing Citizens is Exactly the Same; From Managing Spousal Relations to International Relations is Exactly the Same!

    NEW YORK, NY, October 02, 2011 /24-7PressRelease/ -- From very early on man figured out that the first choice to make society healthy, wealthy and safe was to make all the citizens wise. However as wisdom education was elusive and wisdom could not be taught they settled on the second best choice to make society civil. They settled on managing and controlling human behavior through laws. Ever since management has become the key science to control the basic animal human nature of man.

Even life itself at the personal level is being managed. Thus the science of management has become the highest science for living our life. We manage our relationships beginning with our own selves, our spouses, family, neighbors, society etc.

When we manage our emotional lives especially relationships we assume that controlling our behavior is the best possible way to live. This assumption is based on the belief that the so called basic animal nature of man is fixed and it cannot be changed and so it has to be managed and controlled. So we accept our basic animal nature as a natural part of our self. In the first place having this erroneous belief about our self makes us accept the fact that parts of us is bad and even sinful; thus saddling us with guilt, unhappiness and frustration. This has disastrous psychological effects and secondly this makes us do nothing to get rid of our negative character traits.

As long as we do not see that a wisdom society is possible we will continue to manage our lives, our relationships, our desires... Just wake up to the fact that how does managing love sound! Managing love is not pure love. Similarly managing relationships, even relationship with one's own self is not a pure relationship. Just imagine having a 'managing relationship with one's children as opposed to having a pure love relationship with one's children. What a difference it will make if all relationships are pure relationships. Just visualize what kind of a future generation we will be raising if our relationships with our children were pure and not managed.

Management is the solution when we have emotionally sick people. Unfortunately our wrong beliefs about emotional intelligence, which at the super mature stage is none other than wisdom, has made us create a society that can only be managed through strict laws of behavior. As we cultivate and even encourage the animal human nature of man; we lay the ground work for emotionally challenged behavior. Because of our ignorance we cultivate emotional sickness in man by making management of behavior the highest life science.

Managing and controlling means there is a superior managing an inferior person. In the case of self management it boils down to the self managing the animal within. It means trying to tame the wild animal human nature within. This lower level animal nature produces it's own electro-biochemical reactions that have a rippling negative effect on the body and mind of the individual. Leaving the animal in us often results in the animal flaring up even in the so called good citizens not to speak of those who are constantly in and out of their animal part controlling behavior.

From drug addictions to crime, from divorce to tense relationships, from wars to hatreds, from poverty to mental illness to all the ills of society they are all a direct result of leaving the animal in us. As long as the animal human nature is churning out it's own electro-chemical reactions the best one can do is manage and control one's life; from spousal relationships to bring up children to enjoying and living life. Everything becomes twisted and distorted depending upon the extent of the animal in us.

By creating wise human beings we will make lawful behavior an effortless and natural way of life. Then we will not need control and management. A wise world will have little crime, greed, corruption etc. Our resources that we use to control and manage the ills of society we will save and use to develop education, emotional intelligence education, healthcare, housing, science research etc. Instead of focusing on the prevention of the ills of society we will focus on wise and healthy development projects.

To control the evil in man management laws were developed. The fact is that this evil human nature of man is due to ignorance about the true human nature of man. Every human being has the potential to become wise. There is a big difference between a managed life and a pure authentic life. We manage our happiness by buying trophies as opposed to pure happiness that is the effortless expression of the pure self, which is naturally wise.

What has the science of management brought us? It has first and foremost made us close our eyes to the real fundamental causes of the ills of society. In spite of all the advances in the science of management our jails are full, our mental asylums are full. Poverty is rampant; just imagine 20% of the NYC population is living below the poverty line! One out of 2 marriages end in divorce. We are the biggest consumers of illegal and even legal drugs. Managing human behavior ignores the fact that we have to manage mostly emotionally challenged behavior. And emotionally challenging behavior mostly cannot be controlled through laws.

Management was the second choice of our immortals of philosophy. Their first choice was through making society wise. Now that we have figured out wisdom education; we can do away with management related ill effects and introduce the positive rippling effects that will come with a wise society.

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