When the End Is Near: Caring for Your Elderly Parents

    BELMONT, CA, September 11, 2013 /24-7PressRelease/ -- Every day 43.5 million American adults provide care for someone--our spouses, our friends, and most of all our parents--who are fifty or older and suffer from a variety of conditions from Alzheimer's to cancer to simple old age, according to the Family Caregiver Alliance. But who is taking care of the caregivers?

"Looking after the health of another human being is an enormous amount of work," says Stefania Shaffer, author of "9 Realities of Caring for an Elderly Parent," an indispensable new guidebook for those who find themselves thrust into this unenviable role. "From administering medications to bathing and feeding to providing emotional support in very difficult times, it's a 24/7 position--one that is unpaid and often very thankless."

Although the health of the person requiring care is always at the forefront, the well-being of the caregiver often goes ignored, and that includes not only physical wellness but psychological and financial health. According to the Caregiver Action Network:

* 47% of working caregivers use up most or all of their own savings on caregiving expenses.
* Women caregivers are 2.5 times more likely to live in poverty.
* The services caregivers provide are valued at $375 billion per year--though none of them see a penny of it.
* Caregivers report unusually high rates of depression, poor eating and exercise habits, and overall fair to poor health.

"On the other hand," notes Ms. Shaffer, "there can be positive changes in the caregiver's life as well. Helping my mother to navigate her last years made me a more effective and proactive advocate for her and for myself. Most of all it gave me priceless time with my mom, leading to a closeness we might not otherwise have experienced."

In "9 Realities of Caring for an Elderly Parent," Ms. Shaffer shares the touching and often heartwrenching anecdotes and invaluable lessons learned from caring for her eighty-five-year-old mother as she approached the end of her life. The book is also a step-by-step companion for all who find themselves in charge of a parent's well-being and covers topics from keeping Mom and Dad safe in their own home and organizing their financial records to making funeral arrangements, executing the estate, and effectively communicating with siblings and attorneys.

Stefania Shaffer currently resides in Northern California. This is her second book. Her first, Heroes Don't Always Wear Capes, was a novel about extraordinary teachers who become heroes for a student. Both are available at amazon.com/kindle/.

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